Significance of Mehendi in wedding

Mehendi represents the bond of matrimony and is therefore, considered a ‘shagun’. It signifies the love and affection between the couple and their families.

Here are some popular beliefs that are associated with this tradition:

• The darkness of the mehendi colour on a bride’s hand represents the deep love between the would-be-couple.
• The mehendi colour also shows the love and understanding between the bride and her mother-in-law.
• The longer the mehendi retains its colour, the more auspicious it is for the newlyweds.
• Mehendi is also deemed to be a symbolic representation of fertility.

Mehendi or henna is known for its medicinal properties. It has a cooling effect that aids in soothing stress, headaches and fevers. Mehendi herb is also very beneficial for growth of nails. So, mehendi is applied to relieve the bride and groom of all the wedding stress. It also protects them from any viral diseases before the wedding.

Wedding Ring Importance

Your wedding ring is one of the most important pieces of jewellery you will wear in your lifetime. It symbolises the promise and commitment you and your partner have made to each other for life.

Your wedding day is such an important event in your life. Its a day where you express your feelings for each other and commit yourselves to spend the rest of your lives together.

Your ring, as a symbol of your love for each other, is also a symbol of your style, personality and your shared bond with your partner. Its so important to have a wedding ring that represents you and your relationship with each other.

You and your partners ring should be loved by you individually and also together, connecting you and reminding you of your love for each other.

8 Secret Things about Marriage that Couples Should Know

1. Girls, are you ready to imitate your mother-in-law?

Immediately after marriage, your doting boyfriend vanishes. He now wants you to imbibe his mother’s qualities. Get ready to cook, care and run the house like her. You are compared to your mother-in-law and unknowingly you two are put up to compete with each other, time and again.

2. Husbands are you ready to pick sides?

Sometimes situations will crop up when you would have to make a decision whether to agree with your mother or your wife. Both these ladies play an important role in your life, but once you give your opinion, get ready to be emotionally tortured, forever. Don’t expect any help from your father. He has already learnt his lesson in vanishing from the scene.

3. You are his new nanny!

After marriage, the husband’s family expects the newly-wed 'bahu' to change the bad habits of her husband overnight. It is like his parents got him married so that they can wash their hands off his responsibility. Duh, what were the parents doing all these years?

4. Reveal your expenses but never ask hers

After marriage, be ready to give a detailed expense report to your wife. You might have to give a complete power point presentation as well! But remember while you are giving details of every rupee you spend, you can never dare to question your wife’s expenditures. Learn this mantra that she strongly believes your money is hers and her money is hers, only.

5. Gender equality is kept out of the kitchen

The traditional perception of women managing the house remains unchanged even in this modern age. Your husband gets applauded even if he attempts to toast a piece of bread and burns it, while your hard work would be labelled as your duty.

6. She tells her mom, everything!

Husbands get prepared to find out that your mother-in-law knows about each and every aspect of your married life. Your wife shares all tits and bits with her mother. But don’t even think about doing the same, because if she gets to know that you share details with your family, you will never hear the end of it!

7. His parents are family, yours are just guests

Girls, after marriage you take care of your in-laws just like your own family, but your parents will remain guests in your husband's home. You are expected to play the role of an ideal daughter to your in-laws, whereas your husband always remains a 'jamai raja' for your family.

8. Arguments never take a rational path

Arguments are common when two different beings are staying together. To satisfy his inherent male ego, your husband will need to have the last word in any argument. While to satisfy your wife’s emotional needs, husbands should be the first one to apologise.

Every Woman Wants Her Man to…

Every woman wants a man who’s honest, committed, loving, understanding, etc… but that’s not it! There is a lot more women expect their men to know.  Here are 5 things that every woman secretly expects her partner to know…

1) The Basics of Cooking
You need not be Sanjeev Kapoor but if you know the basics of cooking like making tea/coffee, rice, dal, soup, healthy snacks, etc you’ll never be in trouble. If your woman is in no mood to cook someday, you can enter the kitchen and make her feel special.

2) Know Driving
Yes, we all know women are good drivers (we mean it!) But there are some who may not be very confident at driving and that’s when they expect their partner to have good driving skills. Women love going on long drives. Doesn’t matter which car you own. All you need to know is how to drive, if you really want to set an impression on your woman.

3) Be Organised 
Running the house, cooking, doing the dishes, keeping the house clean, etc is not just a woman’s job. She expects her man to take equal interest when it comes to household chores. If not everyday, at least over the weekends when you’re home.

4) Be Technologically Sound
Most men love gadgets! If you have a technical mind, you are going to be called a Genius by your partner. But being a technical disaster won’t work. The fact is, not all women have great knowledge about gadgets and so they expect their partner to understand it well.  You at least need to know how to change a bulb, tube light, save your computer from viruses and pop-ups.

5) Be a Health Freak 

You might be a samosa, vada pav fan, but women prefer men who are conscious about what they eat. Of course, you can enjoy your unhealthy deep-fried food once in a while but not always. Most women today are health conscious and they expect their partner to follow the same diet. So, forget your cheese, butter and sugar on a daily basis. Apart from that women love men who take up a fitness activity to stay fit. If not anything else, you could just go for your morning walks.

MARRIAGE

Marriage (also called matrimony or wedlock) is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws. The definition of marriage varies according to different cultures, but it is principally an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged.

People marry for many reasons, including: legal, social, libidinal, emotional, financial, spiritual, and religious. Who they marry may be influenced by socially determined rules of incest, prescriptive marriage rules, parental choice and individual desire. In many parts of the world, marriages are arranged. Forced marriages are illegal in some jurisdictions.

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